here i am to giv some comments on what david recently posted.
it is better to post it here rather than to flood ur tagbox.
u better be honoured david, ur name is here lmao.
ahemmm.

To begin with, i have to agree wif u on the stress we accumulate frm the amt of homework we have been given.
Though no one made it a rule to finish it all.
Joel made a gd point the other day.
There is no point in finishing all the homework given for some of it wld clearly be a waste of time.
yea doin hw is sorta gd as it allows us to revise and at the same time clear some of our doubts on those ques we do not noe how to do.
but too much of it is...sheesh. lols.
tts y i make it a point to stop work and get rdy to sleep by 10. note : GET READY. not sleep lols.
if we just focus on completing our work then it wld defeat the purpose of doin them in the first place.
i'd rather have ample rest to stay alert in class than to doze off the whole day, missing out on most of the important points.
i'd rather get my concepts right THEN get on the track of completing my homework deligently and fruitfully.

Next, friendship.
i do not feel tt abandoning those hu caused our downfall wld be appropriate.
furthermore, it doesnt seem right.
frm day 1 when we had first known these ppl, we alreadi had this responsibility upon our shoulders to be the friends we shld be.
even if these ppl wronged me, abandoning them wld nv be the option for me.
if i abandon them, hu noes wad these ppl cld become if i dun render help.
moreover, not everyone is perfect.
for some awkward reason, we tend to focus more on their flaws tt we become oblivious to their good sides.
it nv hurt to pause and perceive them frm another perspective.
so y not choose to handle the situation rather than to run away frm it all?
besides, u can always tell them nicely tt ure stressed and tired and u nid a break.
even if they did giv tt response, it wldn't kill anyone to tell them how u felt.

Trust. lols.
Yes i do agree tt it is hard to trust someone hu says "i can kip a secret" when him/herself is telling u someone else's secret.
but i do not agree on the point of telling ur friends ur problems onli if they told u theirs.
Their life is personal and they can choose to tell anyone their problems as and when they like or maybe not even mention them at all.
When they confide in u, they do not do tt onli becoz u told them ur own troubles.
they do tt becoz they placed their trust in u to comfort and help them in any way possible.
If the whole 'confiding thing' runs on the system of "i will tell u onli if u told me", won't the world be a more emo-ish place?
no one wld want to confide in anybody becoz they have to "pay" to get "comfort".
ok tt sounds wrong LOLs.
ANYWAY, it is as if we have to fork out part of our salary to compensate for tt part of the salary we lost. isnt tt abit redundent? lols
ok i have not the slightest clue on whether or not i got those scenarios properly linked to the situation. -.-
but overall in my opinion, people shld have the freedom to confide in anyone they trust and those ppl in whom they confided in shld have the responsibility to make an effort to carry out on wad they tink its best.